{"id":769,"date":"2016-02-05T19:03:39","date_gmt":"2016-02-05T18:03:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/?p=769"},"modified":"2017-02-16T16:53:28","modified_gmt":"2017-02-16T15:53:28","slug":"jai-decide-detre-heureux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/jai-decide-detre-heureux\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00ab\u00a0J&rsquo;ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 d&rsquo;\u00eatre heureux&#8230;\u00a0\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-770 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/g\u00e2teau-anniv-300x198.jpg\" alt=\"heureux !\" width=\"300\" height=\"198\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/g\u00e2teau-anniv-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/g\u00e2teau-anniv-768x508.jpg 768w, https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/g\u00e2teau-anniv.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Il n&rsquo;y a pas d&rsquo;\u00e2ge pour \u00eatre heureux, pas plus que malheureux malheureusement ! C&rsquo;est pourquoi j&rsquo;ai f\u00eat\u00e9 mon anniversaire, que certains d\u2019entre vous ont eu la gentillesse de me souhaiter. Merci !<\/p>\n<p>Cette journ\u00e9e a \u00e9t\u00e9 l&rsquo;occasion d&rsquo;un d\u00e9bat amusant entre ceux, qui comme moi \u00ab\u00a0f\u00eatent\u00a0\u00bb encore leur anniversaire, et ceux qui ont renonc\u00e9 \u00e0 le faire.<\/p>\n<p>Ce d\u00e9bat, en dehors de me faire sourire, m\u2019inspire les r\u00e9flexions suivantes\u00a0:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>La premi\u00e8re, est qu\u2019atteindre l\u2019\u00e2ge canonique de 49 ans, m\u00eame si c\u2019est moins glamour que 30 ans, doit rester une f\u00eate.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Pourquoi\u00a0?<\/p>\n<p>Parce que c\u2019est une chance de les atteindre\u00a0!<\/p>\n<p>La dur\u00e9e de vie moyenne a tripl\u00e9 en 2 si\u00e8cles et demi, passant de 25 ans en 1740 \u00e0 plus de 80 ans aujourd\u2019hui (source <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ined.fr\/\">http:\/\/www.ined.fr\/<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Ce que certains ont tendance \u00e0 consid\u00e9rer comme un d\u00fb, ne l\u2019est malheureusement pas pour tout le monde.<\/p>\n<p>Tous n\u2019ont pas la chance de vieillir. Ne serait-ce que pour eux, il me semble important de c\u00e9l\u00e9brer chaque nouvelle ann\u00e9e, cette victoire sur le <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/patience\/\">temps.<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ma seconde r\u00e9flexion est la suivante\u00a0:<br \/>\n<h3>Si je continue de f\u00eater mes anniversaires c\u2019est parce que <strong>c\u2019est bon pour le moral\u00a0!<\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Sonja Lyubomirski\u00a0 a d\u00e9montr\u00e9 dans son ouvrage \u00ab Comment \u00eatre heureux et le rester, augmentez votre <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/bonheur-mon-outil-de-mesure\/\">bonheur <\/a>de 40%\u00a0\u00bb, que f\u00eater et c\u00e9l\u00e9brer participent \u00e0 l\u2019augmentation de notre capital bonheur. Ces actions contribuent aux 12 strat\u00e9gies qu&rsquo;elle a identifi\u00e9es\u00a0 pour cultiver son <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/etre-heureux\/\">bonheur <\/a>comme un jardin.<\/p>\n<p>Des strat\u00e9gies dont s&rsquo;inspirent d&rsquo;ailleurs de plus en plus les entreprises elles m\u00eames.<\/p>\n<p>Certaines ont enfin compris que f\u00eater les victoires, c\u00e9l\u00e9brer les anniversaires, cr\u00e9aient du lien entre les salari\u00e9s, un sentiment d&rsquo;appartenance et de joie profitable \u00e0 tous.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>La troisi\u00e8me r\u00e9flexion d\u00e9coule de la pr\u00e9c\u00e9dente : Pourquoi vouloir \u00eatre heureux\u00a0?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Voltaire a r\u00e9pondu \u00e0 cette question il y a fort longtemps. Il a eu une intuition de g\u00e9nie lorsqu\u2019il a \u00e9crit \u00ab\u00a0<strong>j\u2019ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 d\u2019\u00eatre heureux parce que c\u2019est bon pour la sant\u00e9<\/strong>\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Il a d\u2019ailleurs fait la d\u00e9monstration de son intuition puisqu\u2019il est d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9 \u00e0 83 ans, quand l\u2019esp\u00e9rance de vie au 18<sup>\u00e8me<\/sup> si\u00e8cle n\u2019exc\u00e9dait pas 25 ans\u00a0!<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>En r\u00e9sum\u00e9, ces diff\u00e9rentes r\u00e9flexions tendent \u00e0 d\u00e9montrer que f\u00eater et c\u00e9l\u00e9brer des occasions particuli\u00e8res, instaurent un cercle vertueux\u00a0:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Je suis heureux de&#8230; donc je le f\u00eate.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>En le f\u00eatant je me cr\u00e9e de bons souvenirs qui augmentent mon capital <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/pratiquez-le-bonheur-comme-un-sport\/\">bonheur.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Donc je me sens encore mieux, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Puisque je suis heureux de&#8230; je le f\u00eate, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>En le f\u00eatant\u2026<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Enfin, j\u2019invite les coquets et coquettes \u00e0 s\u2019inspirer d\u2019une actrice italienne.<\/p>\n<p>Elle enjoignait sa maquilleuse de ne pas toucher \u00e0 ses rides arguant qu\u2019elle avait mis tant d\u2019ann\u00e9es \u00e0 les obtenir\u2026)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Il n&rsquo;y a pas d&rsquo;\u00e2ge pour \u00eatre heureux, pas plus que malheureux malheureusement ! C&rsquo;est pourquoi j&rsquo;ai f\u00eat\u00e9 mon anniversaire, que certains d\u2019entre vous ont eu la gentillesse de me souhaiter. Merci ! Cette journ\u00e9e a \u00e9t\u00e9 l&rsquo;occasion d&rsquo;un d\u00e9bat amusant entre ceux, qui comme moi \u00ab\u00a0f\u00eatent\u00a0\u00bb encore leur anniversaire, et ceux qui ont renonc\u00e9 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[189,207,23,218],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v18.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"La c\u00e9l\u00e9bration, un booster de bonheur !\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/jai-decide-detre-heureux\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:title\" content=\"&quot;J&#039;ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 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