{"id":2251,"date":"2019-12-22T17:31:57","date_gmt":"2019-12-22T16:31:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/?p=2251"},"modified":"2019-12-22T17:38:36","modified_gmt":"2019-12-22T16:38:36","slug":"pere-noel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/pere-noel\/","title":{"rendered":"Faut-il croire (encore) au P\u00e8re No\u00ebl ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide has-media-on-the-right\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"550\" height=\"367\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/p\u00e8re-no\u00ebl-dor\u00e9.jpg\" alt=\"Croire au P\u00e8re No\u00ebl \" class=\"wp-image-2252\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/p\u00e8re-no\u00ebl-dor\u00e9.jpg 550w, https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/p\u00e8re-no\u00ebl-dor\u00e9-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p style=\"color:#af642f\" class=\"has-text-color has-drop-cap\">\u00c7a tombe bien la question est d\u2019actualit\u00e9s&nbsp;! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>J\u2019ajouterai qu\u2019elle est malheureusement toujours d\u2019actualit\u00e9, si l\u2019on consid\u00e8re les \u00ab&nbsp;r\u00eaveurs&nbsp;\u00bb qui&nbsp;: <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Sont victimes d\u2019arnaques flagrantes sur internet. Pour un \u00ab\u00a0arnaqueur\u00a0\u00bb il faut au moins un \u00ab\u00a0arnaqu\u00e9\u00a0\u00bb, visiblement, il s\u2019en trouve toujours pour consid\u00e9rer normal et sans danger \u00ab&nbsp;la trop belle mari\u00e9e.&nbsp;\u00bb<\/li><li>Confient la cl\u00e9 de leur bonheur \u00e0 autrui. Comment L\u2019AUTRE pourrait-il faire MON bonheur, si moi-m\u00eame je n\u2019y arrive pas&nbsp;?<\/li><li>Esp\u00e8rent que les choses vont s\u2019arranger d\u2019elles-m\u00eames, sans rien faire. Une tendance au messianisme, qui conduit \u00e0 esp\u00e9rer un miracle, un sauveur, bref un P\u00e8re No\u00ebl&nbsp;!<\/li><li>Utilisent des \u00ab&nbsp;Si&nbsp;\u00bb et des \u00ab&nbsp;Quand&nbsp;\u00bb \u00e0 tort et \u00e0 travers, mettant ainsi leur vie au conditionnel et la remettant au lendemain&nbsp;: je ferai \u00e7a, si\u2026 je le ferai quand\u2026<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"color:#af642f\" class=\"has-text-color\"><strong>Oui, en r\u00e9alit\u00e9, nous voulons continuer de croire au P\u00e8re No\u00ebl.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Croire au P\u00e8re No\u00ebl recouvre pour moi toutes les situations d\u2019aveuglement,\nde d\u00e9ni, d\u2019absence de lucidit\u00e9, que nous traversons tous plus ou moins. Les traverser,\ncela fait partie de l\u2019apprentissage mais s\u2019installer dans le d\u00e9ni est pour moi un\ndes pires d\u00e9fauts car les cons\u00e9quences sont multiples. L\u2019aveuglement impacte\ntoutes les sph\u00e8res d\u2019un individu, intimes, personnelles, amicales, professionnelles,\nsociales et faussent la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 et les relations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En effet, comment avancer, progresser lorsqu\u2019on vit dans une\nillusion&nbsp;? Par exemple en transformant directement les \u00ab&nbsp;\u00e9checs&nbsp;\u00bb\nen \u00ab&nbsp;succ\u00e8s&nbsp;\u00bb sans en faire d\u2019abord un \u00ab&nbsp;apprentissage&nbsp;\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nous sommes souvent d\u00e9munis face \u00e0 l&rsquo;aveuglement ou au d\u00e9ni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"color:#af642f\" class=\"has-text-color\"><strong>Alors comment les en sortir ? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ci-dessous quelques pistes pour les ramener \u00e0 la r\u00e9alit\u00e9&nbsp;: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>En ayant le courage d\u2019\u00eatre parfaitement honn\u00eate et sinc\u00e8re avec eux&nbsp;: je me suis aper\u00e7ue que lorsqu\u2019une personne se ment, elle est malheureusement soutenue dans son mensonge par son entourage qui rechigne \u00e0 lui dire la v\u00e9rit\u00e9 par peur de la blesser.<\/li><li>En donnant du feed back, afin de r\u00e9duire la <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/ameliorer-sa-communication-interpersonnelle\/\">zone aveugle <\/a>\u00e0 son strict minimum. C\u2019est-\u00e0-dire en faisant remarquer syst\u00e9matiquement les comportements aveugles ou cr\u00e9dules.<\/li><li>En \u00e9tant p\u00e9dagogue&nbsp;: Posez des questions plut\u00f4t que de donner vos r\u00e9ponses \u00ab&nbsp;as-tu remarqu\u00e9 que&nbsp;?&nbsp;\u00bb, crois-tu vraiment que&nbsp;?&nbsp;\u00bb Soyez factuel(le) et pr\u00e9cis(e) dans vos propos&nbsp;: \u00ab&nbsp;tu as fait, dit ceci \u00e0 tel date\u2026, depuis\u2026&nbsp;\u00bb plut\u00f4t que \u00ab&nbsp;tu te fais toujours avoir&nbsp;\u00bb<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Mais voil\u00e0 que je crois aussi au P\u00e8re No\u00ebl avec mes conseils&nbsp;! Car ils m\u2019ont fait oublier ou nier qu\u2019\u00ab&nbsp;il n\u2019y a pas pire aveugle que celui qui ne veut pas voir&nbsp;\u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"color:#af642f\" class=\"has-text-color\"><strong>Au fond, ne plus croire au P\u00e8re No\u00ebl consiste \u00e0 comprendre et accepter que nous sommes notre propre P\u00e8re No\u00ebl, responsable de nos joies comme des cadeaux que nous nous faisons.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Passez de belles f\u00eates.<\/p>\n\n\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7a tombe bien la question est d\u2019actualit\u00e9s&nbsp;! J\u2019ajouterai qu\u2019elle est malheureusement toujours d\u2019actualit\u00e9, si l\u2019on consid\u00e8re les \u00ab&nbsp;r\u00eaveurs&nbsp;\u00bb qui&nbsp;: Sont victimes d\u2019arnaques flagrantes sur internet. 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