{"id":1365,"date":"2017-06-23T17:00:17","date_gmt":"2017-06-23T15:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/?p=1365"},"modified":"2018-09-03T15:18:25","modified_gmt":"2018-09-03T13:18:25","slug":"alerte-mots-menaces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/alerte-mots-menaces\/","title":{"rendered":"Mots menac\u00e9s : vigilance !"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/pandas.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-1366\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/pandas.jpg\" alt=\"Le pouvoir des mots en PNL\" width=\"270\" height=\"202\" \/><\/a>Dans le langage courant actuel, certains mots ont mauvaise presse, sont mal \u00ab\u00a0vus\u00a0\u00bb, bannis sous peine de repr\u00e9sailles\u00a0!<\/h2>\n<p>Or, le souci lorsqu\u2019un mot s\u2019efface ou disparait, est que la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 qui lui est associ\u00e9e disparait avec. En tant que PNListe, je suis inqui\u00e8te de cette situation qui repr\u00e9sente une menace pour la pens\u00e9e, les choix, voire l\u2019int\u00e9grit\u00e9 des personnes. Certains mots sont en danger, et comme ce panda, en voie de disparition\u00a0!<\/p>\n<p>Il n\u2019est pas question ici de faire l\u2019inventaire de tous les mots tomb\u00e9s en d\u00e9su\u00e9tude, les linguistes s\u2019en chargent tr\u00e8s bien.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mais plut\u00f4t de faire le lien entre langage, pens\u00e9e et r\u00e9alit\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Prenons trois exemples pour mieux comprendre.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Le mot \u00ab\u00a0critique\u00a0\u00bb : il\u00a0sonne r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement comme un reproche. C\u2019est oublier que la critique peut \u00eatre positive, mais \u00e9galement salvatrice. Avoir un esprit critique, permet de garantir une certaine lucidit\u00e9.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Avec sa diminution, voire sa disparition, nous assistons \u00e0 une v\u00e9ritable explosion des arnaques et escroquerie en tout genre, notamment sur internet.<\/p>\n<p>Mais pas uniquement\u00a0! Combien de gourous et de charlatans, profitent du manque de lucidit\u00e9 de leurs victimes\u00a0? Non seulement ils profitent de cette lacune, mais ils surfent \u00e9galement sur la vague de mots \u00e0 l\u2019inverse tr\u00e8s en vogue\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0s\u00e9rieux\u00a0\u00bb, \u00ab\u00a0sp\u00e9cialiste\u00a0\u00bb, <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/au-diable-lexpertise\/\">\u00ab\u00a0expert<\/a>.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Ils en adoptent l&rsquo;allure, la morgue n\u00e9cessaire et le tour est jou\u00e9\u00a0!<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2. Autre exemple, le mot \u00ab\u00a0l\u00e2cher\u00a0\u00bb, comme \u00ab\u00a0l\u00e2cher prise.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Certaines r\u00e9sistances au<a href=\"http:\/\/www.formationsavoie.fr\/efficacite-professionnelle-et-personnelle\/invitation-a-lart-du-lacher-prise\/\"> l\u00e2cher prise<\/a> s\u2019expliquent par ce mot connot\u00e9 p\u00e9jorativement. L\u00e2che, l\u00e2cheur, sont synonyme d\u2019abandon et de trahison. Aussi, entre mon envie de l\u00e2cher prise, c\u2019est \u00e0 dire gagner en l\u00e9g\u00e8ret\u00e9, et ma culpabilit\u00e9 d\u2019abandon, il arrive souvent que ce soit la seconde qui remporte la partie.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3. Enfin, \u00e9tudions le mot opportunit\u00e9\u00a0: il d\u00e9signe au d\u00e9part la facult\u00e9 \u00e0 saisir les occasions qui se pr\u00e9sentent. Ce qui diff\u00e8re de les provoquer par calcul. On parle alors d\u2019opportunisme. La proximit\u00e9 phonique, et malheureuse, de ces cousins \u00e0 desservi l\u2019opportunit\u00e9. Elle est consid\u00e9r\u00e9e \u00e0 tort comme une d\u00e9viance, et donc souvent n\u00e9glig\u00e9e. Or, n\u00e9gliger les opportunit\u00e9s, c\u2019est se mettre \u00e0 l\u2019abri de la <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/la-chance-est-une-pimbeche\/\">chance<\/a> et donc de <a href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/les-ingredients-de-la-reussite\/\">r\u00e9ussite\u00a0<\/a>!<\/p>\n<h3>En r\u00e9sum\u00e9\u00a0:<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>On \u00e9vite de critiquer et donc d\u2019avoir l\u2019esprit critique, ce qui conduit parfois \u00e0 se faire \u00ab\u00a0plumer\u00a0\u00bb,<\/li>\n<li>On h\u00e9site \u00e0 l\u00e2cher prise de peur d\u2019\u00eatre accus\u00e9 d\u2019\u00eatre un l\u00e2cheur,<\/li>\n<li>Et on m\u00e9prise les opportunit\u00e9s, de crainte d\u2019\u00eatre per\u00e7u comme un opportuniste.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ils sont nombreux les mots vid\u00e9s de leur sens, et qui ont donc peu \u00e0 peu disparu de nos exp\u00e9riences, n\u2019h\u00e9sitez pas \u00e0 compl\u00e9ter.<\/p>\n<p>Et surtout avant de \u00ab\u00a0bannir\u00a0\u00bb un mot, et donc de le chasser de votre pens\u00e9e, posez-vous simplement\u00a0 la question suivante\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0de quelle exp\u00e9rience vais-je me priver\u00a0?\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dans le langage courant actuel, certains mots ont mauvaise presse, sont mal \u00ab\u00a0vus\u00a0\u00bb, bannis sous peine de repr\u00e9sailles\u00a0! Or, le souci lorsqu\u2019un mot s\u2019efface ou disparait, est que la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 qui lui est associ\u00e9e disparait avec. En tant que PNListe, je suis inqui\u00e8te de cette situation qui repr\u00e9sente une menace pour la pens\u00e9e, les choix, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[44,224],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v18.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Car le langage conditionne notre pens\u00e9e et notre r\u00e9alit\u00e9, il est essentiel d&#039;utiliser un vocabulaire, des mots, adapt\u00e9s \u00e0 ce que nous souhaitons vivre.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/coachingsavoie.com\/blog\/alerte-mots-menaces\/\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:title\" content=\"Mots menac\u00e9s : vigilance ! 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